If you ‘ve been single and dating in the last few years, chances are you or one of your friends, has had a close encounter with a player. With some of these guys, it’ s easy to see the warning signs right away. They ‘ve got cheesy pick up lines and a vibe that just screams “I’ m all about the game life “- trying just a little too hard.
But others are masters of manipulation and aren’t so easy to spot. Causing even the savviest of women to miss the signs, and in the end leaving them confused and heartbroken.
Has this ever happened to you?
He was handsome, well-spoken, successful and charming, from the minute you met, you feel special and completely swept off your feet!
It was such a nice change to finally meet a confident man that you have chemistry with AND knows how to treat you like a lady.
When you spend time together it feels great, yet other times it can be confusing, he can be distant, and there’s a feeling that just won’t go away…. you can’t help but wonder if something is off…
Starting to ask yourself, what the signs are that he’s genuine or that he’s playing mind games with you…
Here’s your definitive list, that he’s a player, not a keeper and it might just be time to let him go…
The Player will come on strong, and in total control. Dressed impeccably, he makes you feel beautiful and that he’s totally blown away by you, he’s even charming and engaging with your friends. You notice that he exudes confidence and has no problem talking to multiple women.
Most men are terrified of rejection, even the successful ones that have a lot of confidence can be a bit on the shy side when it comes to approaching women in public. A man that’s relationship material, will want to be respectful of you and will be looking for a sign that it’s OK for him to approach you. When you connect, he won’t be a smooth talker because he’s used to being in a relationship, not out every night chatting up women.
He’s in the habit of texting you at the last minute, usually way to late to get dinner, so instead you should ” just come over