Single & Dating During The Holidays? How To Meet The One
Are you single at Christmas again? Think dating during the holidays doesn’t work or isn’t for you? Well, then I’ve got good news for you! Even though you might find yourself saying “everyone is a relationship but me!”. The truth is, there are plenty of other singles out there searching for love during the holiday season.
And believe it or not, December is the one of best months to meet that some one special.
Here Are 4 Awesome Ways To Meet The One This Holiday Season
1. Get Social And Accept All Invitations
This time of year it seems as if almost everyone is throwing a party or get together of some sort. From work parties, networking events to gatherings with friends and family, say yes to everything. Even the ones you only feel so so about. Take it a step further and don’t just wait for invitations, be proactive and ask friends and family about what parties they’re attending and be their plus one.
Sometimes the most random events will be the best connections, so make chatting up new people a priority. If you’re the shy type that’s ok, make it a game and tell yourself you can’t leave until you talk to at least three new people. The secret is to put the focus on connecting. If you ask interesting questions and are curious, you’ll find that conversation will begin to flow naturally.
2. Try A Winter Sport
Winter sports are very social and a great way to meet new people. For women in particular, men will outnumber them significantly on the slopes Downhill Skiing and Snowboarding. It doesn’t matter if you’re a beginner or need to take a lesson, you can do all your flirting in the lodge après ski. Some other activities to try are Ice Skating, Snow Shoeing, Cross Country Skiing and Snowmobiling.
3. Throw A Party
Deck the halls and put on your own event. If you typically only hang out with certain groups at parties make sure you diversify. Invite people from a variety of social groups and ask them to bring someone. Even if you don’t happen to meet the love of your life, it might lead to new friendships or they may know someone you’d be great with.
Consider having a theme like an ugly sweater party, Christmas song karaoke or a tree decorating party. It will bring an extra dash of fun and get everyone in a festive and social mood.
4. Put Yourself Out There And Volunteer
Let’s face it; sometimes being single during the holidays can start to play games with your head. It seems like everywhere you go, you see happy couples out and about—Starbucks in one hand, bags filled with holiday gifts in the other. Don’t let this phase you.
Dating is a process with ups and downs. One of the best ways to get out of a funk is to do something for someone else. So, instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself, change your mindset and think of how you can bring joy to another.
Reach out to someone you know who is going through a hard time, volunteer at an old age home, soup kitchen or kids event. Not only could you meet someone else volunteering, but you will glow and be even more attractive from all the good work you’re doing.
“Helping + Good Vibes = Sexiness + Attraction”
5. Remember To Take A Little Time For Yourself
Holidays can be hectic! Between all the shopping, parties and higher than normal alcohol consumption, it can be easy to let yourself get run down. Balance all the treats and cocktails with self-care. Make it a point to take time for yourself in between all your activities.
Simple things like exercise, a relaxing massage, sleep, eating well at least 90% of the time, and taking supplements will keep your energy high and leave you ready to enjoy a festive and flirty holiday season.
6. Be Open To New Possibilities
Jammed packed with events that can expand your social circle – winter festivals, parties, travel, you name it, the opportunities are there. Combine them with a good attitude, a willingness to try something new and a fun holiday season is yours for the taking. I hope you try one or even better, all of these ideas to up your dating game during the holidays. After all, if you want something different, you have to do something different.
In the end the experience that you over the holidays this year is going to be whatever you decide it will be. And with these tips, there’s simply no reason, you can’t make the most of it and enjoy being single at Christmas and maybe even meet that special someone you’ve been searching for!
Wishing You Joy & Love,
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