Dating can be hard, getting out there, swiping left, dressing up, only to go on another first date that doesn’t amount to much. Wouldn’t it be nice to know for sure if a guy likes you or not, without spending endless hours analyzing your date or endlessly re-reading your text messages?
If a man’s interested, he’ll have a few telltale clues, you just need to know what to look for. Here are 5 signs that he likes you right away, so you don’t have to ride that emotional roller coaster anymore.
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1. When You Have Him At First Sight
You’re out and about, you pop in to your favorite coffee spot to grab a quick a latte and immediately lock eyes with a handsome stranger.
Is it just co-incidence or is he attracted to you?
One way to tell, is to watch how his how his body reacts upon first seeing you.
If you notice a change in his facial expression that looks like slightly surprised look – eyes widening, lips parting, eyebrows raised then, this is a indication that he’s physically attracted to you.
You may have heard that men are visual?
This is true, in fact they’re vision evolved from the hunter days and they have 25x more neurons in their eyes than women. Which allows him to process a substantial amount of information about you.
So, when you see his eyes widening, this is a strong indication of his body saying, “I’m into you and want to take you all in”.
As women we tend to think that we have to fit a certain standard of beauty, but the truth is that men like all different sizes and shapes and there is someone for everyone.
What I love about this, is that if you’re ever feeling self-conscious about your appearance or body shape you can take this sign and use it to boost your confidence, because really what this message sends is:
“I’m into you, just how you are.”
Look for a few other signs that will be somewhat subtle, he may smooth his hair down, touch his belt, collar or adjust his tie.
2. Eye Contact, Eye Contact, Eye Contact
First contact made, you think you saw the subtle clues that he’s attracted, but was it a glance or could there be more there?
Maybe he’s attracted but not available, how can you be sure?
If he’s single and interested, he’s going to make prolonged eye contact and look at you, a lot.
This is him looking for signs from you, that you’re interested in him. So if you like what you see, make sure that he knows by meeting his eyes and hold your gaze for 3-5 seconds, smile look away and look back again.
3. He’ll Try To Impress You This Way
One common complaint that I hear from women after a first or second date with a new guy is that they say he talked to much. So much so, that it was all about him, and he didn’t seem interested or ask them anything at all.
I know that it can be frustrating, but in the early stages of dating take this a great sign!
Him sharing with you all his accomplishments and wins, means he wants to you to impress you. Unfortunately, he can be so focused on proving his worth to you, that he’s unaware that he’s coming across as rude.
If you find yourself in this situation, the best way to handle it is to just jump into the conversation and share something about yourself. My favorite example is “That’s so interesting, it reminds me of…..” simple and easy.
4. He’s Thoughtful
Answer these 3 questions, when you are on a date with him:
Does he care about how you feel?
Does he want you to have a great time?
Does he pay attention to your likes and dislikes?
5. There Will Be A Natural Flow
This one might seem obvious, yet many women get stuck and ruin a potentially good relationship by keeping themselves spinning in fear and uncertainty when really they should be approaching it from this perspective:
If he’s into you, he’s going to ask you out, plan dates and want to spend time with you.
The dating process has a natural flow, as long you’re in that flow and it’s feeling like it’s steadily progressing forward, there’s no reason to doubt his interest in you.
There are no guarantees when it comes to love, it would be nice but it’s just not the reality. The most important thing you can do is to understand your value, how the dating process works, who you’re looking for and date within those standards.
This makes you come from the more attractive confident energy of “I am the chooser”, not “Does he like me, will he choose me?” which is a lower value energy and can push men away.
When you date from a place of knowing your value you can also more easily tap into how your really feeling on the date.
Sometimes you can get so caught up in wondering if he likes you, that you can forget to check in with yourself and ask if he’s the right fit and everything your looking for.
Yes, it’s OK to look for the signs to tell if a guy likes you, just don’t let it consume you and leave you in fear. Pay attention to the natural flow and make sure that you’re also looking for signs that he is a man worthy of you. That he has integrity and that the words coming out of his mouth match his actions and vice versa.
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