If you often feel awkward when it comes to flirting, don’t worry you are not alone. In fact in my years as a love and dating coach, nearly every woman (and man) I’ve worked with has expressed a desire to be a better flirt. No matter what your skill level is, being a great flirt is much easier than you think. All you need are a few killer how to flirt tips and bit of practice to get the guy.
7 Flirting Moves That Get The Guy
1. Its About Those Eyes
Strong eye contact is EVERYTHING and essential for creating connection. This move can feel bold so to get started you have to get into the right mindset. Think of something that makes you feel special, sexy and happy and it will radiate as warmth in your eyes. During conversation make regular eye contact but 1 or 2 times, hold his eyes a couple seconds longer than normal.
Increased eye contact releases a chemical in the brain called PEA, also known as one the love hormones, phenylethylamine. And if you’re feeling nervous about being a brazen flirt, this one simple tip can take the edge off your own dating nerves by activating the chemicals in your brain too.
2. Let’s Get Physical
Men need clear signs that you’re interested. Lightly touch him as you talk. There is a fine line with physical touch when you are just getting to know him. Don’t be forceful or too physically aggressive as it could not only send mixed messages but can also be a turn off for many high quality men. He’ll get the message when you lightly touch his bicep, arm, shoulder or knee as you laugh or when making a point in conversation.
3. Smiling = Sexy!
People like people who like them, and also are drawn towards people that are happy. Smile as you talk, let your warmth and feminine energy shine through. An inviting smile along with genuine interest in your date will have you glowing. And there is nothing sexier to a man than a radiant woman.
4. Be Great Listener
Along the same lines as above, people are drawn to others, who make them feel appreciated. If you’re good at being an active listener they will feel valued, appreciated and accepted. Which then helps to create a sense of attraction, intimacy and deeper connection.
5. Lip Service
The lips are major erogenous zones. As you chat, lightly lick your lips once or twice. Think subtle, not a display worthy of an MTV Video! This is almost imperceptible, a slight flick that comes out quickly goes back in.
Or try biting your lower lip using your teeth to pull it in at the corner. A little cute, a little sexy no man can resist the lip bite.
6. The Femme Fatale
Get in the right frame of mind by thinking of something that makes you feel sexy. Let your eyes soften so they get all liquidy and warm. Smile, toss your hair to the side and tilt your head to reveal your neck then lightly stroke it along the side. He will absolutely melt.
7. Make Your Motto – Sexy Confidence!
Did you ever notice that its not always the most physically attractive person in the room that’s getting all the attention? Its usually the person radiating the most confidence.
At the end of the day flirting is all about confidence! Its an attitude and an art form and it can also be a really fun way to make dating more exciting. Its about putting yourself out there and going for what you want. Confidence is so sexy. I hope you have fun using these amazing how to flirt tips! Let me know how it goes!
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