If you feel awkward when it comes to flirting, don’t worry you aren’t alone. In all my years as a love and dating coach, nearly every woman (and man) I’ve worked with has expressed a desire to be a better flirt. No matter what your skill level is, being a great flirt is much easier than you think. All you need are a few killer how to flirt tips and a bit of practice to learn the subtle flirting moves that guys love.
8 Subtle Flirting Moves That Guys Love
Flirting Move #1 – Your Eyes Are Your Secret Weapon
Subtle but strong eye contact is EVERYTHING and essential for creating physical and emotional connection on a date. This flirting move is subtle but can feel bold. So to get started you have to get into the right mindset.
Think of something that makes you feel special, sexy and happy and it will radiate as warmth in your eyes. During conversation make regular eye contact but 1 or 2 times, hold his eyes a couple seconds longer than normal.
Increased eye contact releases a chemical in the brain called PEA, also known as one the love hormones, phenylethylamine. And if you’re feeling nervous about being a brazen flirt, this one simple tip can take the edge off your own dating nerves by activating the feel good chemicals in your brain too.
Flirting Move #2 – Subtly Use Physical Touch
Many men are shy or want to be respectful. So they need a clear sign from you that you’re interested. Using light touch is a one of the best ways to show your interest in him. And it works wether you’re meeting a guy for the first time and want him to ask you out. Or you’re already on a date with him.
When trying this flirty move on a guy, keep in there is a fine line with physical touch when you are just getting to know him. Don’t be forceful or too physically aggressive as it could not only send mixed messages but can also be a turn off for many high quality men.
This move is simple! Just subtly touch him as you talk. Lightly touch his bicep, arm, shoulder or knee as you laugh. Or when making a point in conversation. Soon you will have his undivided attention.
Flirting Move #3 – Smiling = Sexy!
People like people who like them, and also are drawn towards people that are genuinely happy.
For this move all you have to do is smile and let your natural energy come through. Smile as you talk, let your warmth and feminine energy shine!
Men love to know that you are happy and having a great time.
With an inviting smile, along with a sincere interest in your date you will be absolutely glowing. And there is nothing sexier to a man than a radiant woman!
Flirting Move #4 – Be Great Listener
Along the same lines as above, people are drawn to others, who make them feel appreciated. If you’re good at being an active listener he will feel valued, appreciated and accepted.
Which then helps to create a sense of attraction, intimacy and deeper emotional connection.
Flirting Move #5 – Ask Him Flirty Questions
Having a few subtle, but still fun and flirty questions on hand is a great way to break the ice on a date. As well as a playful way to get to know a guy that you just met. And with the right questions, you can easily slip them into your conversation to see if there is a spark. And perhaps even take things with him to the next level!
For a list of Flirty questions that are also good for a first date or guy you just met check out our article here >> 200+ Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy.
Flirting Move #6 – Lip Service
The lips are major erogenous zones. As you chat, lightly lick your lips once or twice. Think subtle, not a display worthy of an MTV Video!
This one of the almost imperceptible and subtle flirting moves that guys love. Because it triggers attraction on a subconscious level. To do it right just use a slight flick that comes out quickly goes back in.
Or try biting your lower lip using your teeth to pull it in at the corner. A little cute, a little sexy no man can resist the lip bite.
Flirting Move #7 – Activate Your Inner Femme Fatale
To try this flirty tip, it helps to get in to the right frame of mind by thinking of something that makes you feel sexy. Then let your eyes soften so they get all liquidy and warm.
Smile, toss your hair to the side and tilt your head to reveal your neck then lightly stroke it along the side. This move will make him absolutely melt.
Flirting Move #8 – Make Your Motto – Sexy Confidence!
Did you ever notice that its not always the most physically attractive person in the room that’s getting all the attention?
Its usually the person radiating the most confidence. At the end of the day flirting moves that guys love are all about your confidence!
What is Subtle Flirting With a Guy?
Subtly flirting with a guy is an attitude and an art form. It’s a playfulness and lightness. Its an energy that you bring to your interactions with a man that show your interest. While also letting your natural feminine energy shine.
And last but not least, flirting is a really fun way to make your dating life more exciting!
I hope you try these subtle flirting moves the guys love and see for yourself how great they work! Remember, in the quest to find love, its all about putting yourself out there and going for what you want. Your confidence is so sexy!
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