Flirty Texts: 200 Cute Messages To Send Him (or Her)

Flirty texts to send to your special person and make them smile. 200 cute messages for your crush. Perfect for starting a playful convo over text. For him or her, your crush or your partner.

Wether you’re newly dating or with a long-term partner flirting is an important part of keeping the romance alive. However, there’s definitely an art to flirting over text. You want to keep the message fun and cute, while still playing it cool and not being too racy or cheesy.

But, sometimes it’s hard to know exactly what to text someone to strike just the right balance.

Which is why I’ve come up with this list of over 200 flirty texts for you. Wether you’ve been with someone for years, or are newly dating these playful messages are the perfect way to spark a conversation.

Flirty Texts – Cute Messages To Send To Him or Her

1. My thoughts are particularly distracting today… any ideas..😉
2. I’ll give you three chances to guess what I’m thinking right now…
3. Can’t wait to see you tonight…btw I hope you like surprises…;)
4. You look like trouble….I think I like it.
5. Just so you know, I’m pretty good at making bad decisions…😉
6. I may have to add you to my to do list…😉
7. You’re cute…Can I keep you? 🥰 
8. What do you say we skip the small talk and get straight to the flirting.
9. I had the wildest dream about you last night…😍
10. I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
11. Send me a selfie so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas…🎅🏻
12. What is your type, and why is it me? 😉
13. Wanna come over and not watch Netflix’s tonight…lol…
14. You’re lucky you’re so darn cute. I guess that’s why I keep you around…😉
15. Can’t stop thinking that kiss last night, and I’m ready for the sequel later tonight! Have a great day at work hon! 😘
16. How’s work going today? I bet it’s sooooo hard being the biggest hottie in the office…😍
17. Did you know that kissing is the language of love? I guess that means we have a LOT to talk about later! 😘
18. Just read that caffeine can boost your libido. Is that why you keep inviting me out for coffee?
19. What would we be doing if we were together right now?
20. Dinner first, or should we stay in and get straight to dessert?

Cute Flirty Text Messages

Put a smile on his or her face, and make them blush:

21. I had a dream about you last night…and let’s just say it was REALLY memorable…😉
22. You are…😍🔥🔥
23. I keep thinking about you, and you know what? I think I like it…😏
24. Waiting for you at home…(Send along with flirty photo that’s as subtle or spicy as you dare)
25. No way, I am not flirting! I’m just being extra friendly to someone who is extra attractive…🥰
26. I looked so hot today. Too bad you missed out…;)
27. If you kiss me I’m not responsible for what happens next…you’ve been warned! 😉
28. I’m into curves and my favorite one is your sweet smile…🥰
29. My top moments from last night: an amazing dinner with the most wonderful company, and you being an amazing kisser. Not necessarily in that order…:)
30. Big spoon or little spoon? Asking for a friend.
31. Let’s do that again sometime, but with less talking and more… other stuff…;)
32. Tell me again why I like you so much…🥰 
33. I was just daydreaming about you at work…can’t wait to see you tonight…:)
34. Damn! Why are you so cute?
35. Guess what? I like you. There. I finally said it. Now you’ve gotta deal with it…😋
36. If I was there you would find out what it REALLY means to get cozy under the covers…sweet dreams cutie! XO
37. I wish we could cuddle right now, I’m missing you! XO
38. Dare you to call in sick tomorrow and spend all day in bed with me…:)
39. I just noticed that my bed is a whole lot more comfortable with you in it.
40. Thinking about you, has made it almost impossible for me to focus on work today…😉
41. Come over….I promise that you can be the little spoon this time…😏

Flirty Texts To Send To Your Crush

Break the ice and get the ball rolling with your crush with one of these cute, teasing, and flirty messages that aren’t too forward: 

42. Seriously tho…you are so darn charming….just thinking of you puts a smile on my face…🥰 
43. So I’ve got a romcom on my TV, and the leading man looks just like you. Except not quite as cute…😉
44. I’ve been crazy busy all day…Wanna come distract me?
45. You know you’re pretty…pretty amazing…:)
46. Feel like breaking a few rules tonight? 😉
47. Guess which emoji I put next to your name in my phone?
48. I smile whenever I get a message from you…😊
49. Can I save you in my phone as “future loml”…lol…;)
50. Looking forward to getting to know you A LOT better….😊
51. I really like our friendship, especially when we make out…:)
52. It’s not every day you meet a guy who likes…X (send a flirty, meme or photo, or mention something you talked about, music, movie, place, series etc.)
53. You are so X (funny, cute, sweet)…I can’t believe you did that last night!
54. Using five emojis, I dare you to tell me how you feel about me right now.
55. I really want pizza. And someone extra cute to eat it with…😋
56. Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs still exist right?
57. Let’s play truth or dare. I dare you to send me the first photo on your phone.
58. Let’s flip a coin…Heads I’m all yours. Tails you’re all mine.
59. I have three little words I’ve been wanting to tell you: Bring. Pizza. Now. 😋🍕
60. You know what, you’re almost better than chocolate… almost….lol…
61. You’re single. I’m single. I feel like this is a problem we can solve together.

Related – Flirty Good Morning Texts For Your Crush (Him/Her)

Funny Flirty Texts

Having a sense of humor is highly attractive, why not send your person one of these funny flirty texts to make him laugh (or Her) and smile:

62. That photo you just posted on Instagram (TikTok/Snapchat) is ridiculously sexy…😍
63. Texting you this morning has my heart racing! Oh, wait…false alarm that’s just my coffee! 😘  ☕️
64. I hope your day is as nice as my butt. I know it’s pretty hard to be that good, but you never know it could happen…😉
65. If kissing is the language of love then we certainly have a lot to talk about next time we’re together.
66. Ok, so you’re obviously got superpowers, because my cat/dog just admitted that she’d give up her spot on my bed for you.
67. Todays been crazy, now I need a tall glass of you…😍
68. I’ve been practicing my yoga moves. If you’re lucky you might get the chance to see them in person…:)
69. This just in: You’re as hot as the bottom of my laptop.
70. Do you like bagels? Because you’re bae goals.
71. A kiss burns like 7.84 calories per minute, wanna workout later? 😉
72. Hey there hot stuff! Oops sorry, I meant [insert your crush’s name]. Autocorrect can be so annoying, right?
73. Hands up! I’m the FBI, and you’re on my most-wanted list.
74. Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got ‘Fine’ written all over you.
75. If you were a vegetable you’d be a cute-cumber.
76. Are you a Wi-Fi signal? Because I’m feeling a connection.
77. This just in…My dog misses you. Come visit him.
78. I see someone 100% amazing your future. Hint: They’re texting you right now…*crystal ball emoji* 🔮 
79. I’m in the mood for pizza… a pizza you…😏 🍕
80. LOL! This totally made me think of you…(Send along we a cute, funny gif or meme)
81. True story…aside from pizza, I crave you most…😍

Related – Funny Questions (To Ask A Guy /Girl)

Flirty Texts For Her

82. My heart skips a beat every time I think of you. Or maybe it’s more of a somersault…🥰
83. When you see me tonight you’ll have to let me know how you like my shirt. It’s made out of boyfriend material.
84. On a scale of one to 10, I’d give last night an 11. What about you?
85. Missing me? Type Y for yes…:)
86. I can’t get you out of my mind, there’s just something special about the way you move.
87. Beautiful, charming, smart, and you like spicy food. I think I’m in love.
88. Sweet dreams are made of you…😊
89. You’re pretty and I’m cute. Together we’d be Pretty Cute. Cheesy I know but when it comes to you, I just can’t help myself…🥰
90. Damn, that beautiful smile of yours. It’s killing me over here.
91. Daydreaming about you is my new favorite hobby. But reality with you is 100% better.
92. Ugh. I can’t get any work done today because I can’t stop thinking about you. Why do you have to be so amazing??
93. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together.
94. For some reason every love song I hear makes me think of you…
95. I just realized that getting one random text from you is enough to me me smile like a lovesick teenager.
96. You’ve got a lot of beautiful curves, but your smile is definitely my favorite.
97. I hope you have Sweet dreams tonight and I hope I’m in them…:)

Flirty Texts For Him

Flirty texting with your special guy can be exciting and fun, plus you never know where where the convo will lead.

98. How much skin is too much skin to show on our date tonight?
99. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course me… 😉
100. I can tell you’ve been hitting the gym extra hard lately, those abs are..🔥
101. Fact: You are the best (boyfriend/husband/guy) ever! 🥰
102. Do you find it hot when a girl makes the first move or should I wait for you to do it? 😉
103. This just in…I’m not wearing any underwear right now…have a nice day at work!
104. Fact: You’re very lucky to have me as your girl…just sayin’…;)
105. Texting is fun but when can I lay my eyes on those muscles of yours in person?
106. Good boyfriends are hard to find, I guess that makes me the world’s greatest detective!
107. Meet me for happy hour afterwork? I need to see how cute your butt looks today.
108. I’m feeling a little restless right now, it’s really to bad that you’re not here…😉
109. I love you even though you aren’t here with me naked right now…
110. The taste of that lingering kiss of yours is still on my lips…🥰
111. Guess what I was thinking about in the shower…😏 
112. My pillow still smells like you, and I like it…
113. You + Me + Tonight = 🔥🔥🔥
114. I found my cheerleading outfit and it still fits. If you’re lucky I might give you an exclusive look tonight…;)
115. Are you this cute all the time, or did I catch you on a really good day?
116. Yes, I have a dirty mind and right now you’re running through it…naked.
117. I cannot wait to be alone with you again. How soon could we make that happen?

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Flirty Pickup Lines For Texting

Have you just gotten someones number, or matched on a dating app, like tinder or hinge but aren’t sure what to message them first? Sometimes texting them a cute, yet somewhat cheesy pickup line can be a fun way to break the ice on dating app. 

118. So was meeting me as good for you as it was for me? 😉 
119. I’m researching important dates in history, do you want to be mine?
120. When I picture my future, I want you in it. For one thing, it looks waaaay less sexy without you in it…
121. So I already got your number, what’s next? 😉
122. Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should we match again?
123. You’ll have to work harder than that to get a date from me! (Cute example of a teasing text)
124. Ok I guess I can make a few minutes to text with to you…;)
125. I know I’m supposed to wait to text you, but I just can’t help myself.
126. Everybody knows you think I’m cute!
127. Do you believe in love at first text, or should I text you again?

Sassy Flirty Texts For Him (Or Her)

118. Maybe we could meet up later to discuss life. Or if that’s way to boring for you, we could always make out…😉
119. So are we, like, married now?
120. Are you Siri? Because you autocomplete me.
121. You got me so nervous that I’m not sure if I should start this convo with a compliment, a horrible pick-up line, or a simple “What’s up buttercup?”
122. Do you miss me? Type Y for yes.
123. How can you stay away from me? I know you dreamed of me all night…😉
124. Flirting over text has been fun, but what do you say we do it in person?
125. What are your favorite letters of the alphabet? Mine are U and I.
126. Hi, I’m Mr. Right…Someone said you were looking for me?
127. I’m not big on the whole wait three days rule, so I’m texting you now.
128. You sound busy but is there any chance of adding me to your to-do list..;)

Related – Flirty Texts To Send To A Guy You Just Met

Flirty Good Morning Texts For Him (To Make Him Laugh and Smile)

These cute, good morning texts for him will make his day:

139. Good morning hot stuff…I’m making the first move by texting you this morning, so I fully expect you to make the first move when you see me later tonight…:)
140. Good morning to the hottest guy I’ve ever known!
141. Good morning handsome! Let me know if you need some help getting into trouble later, I may have a few ideas up my sleeve…😉
142. Good morning, Happy Flirty Friday babe! Have a great day at work! *send with a cute and flirty selfie or meme**
143. Morning hottie! You blew my mind last night. I can’t wait to do it again tonight.
144. Good morning hottie! I had a dream we were sexting, then I woke up and decided to turn it into a reality…Ready to play?
145. Good morning to the man who made my love story a reality…:)
146. I wish I were there to hit the snooze button with you. Among other things…:)
147. You know what would have been better than yesterday’s date night? If I was there to press the snooze button with you this morning…😍
148. Morning to the worlds cutest Boyfriend! I’ve got yoga night so I’m going to be extra bendy when I get home tonight…and btw you’re welcome! 😉
149. Good morning boyfriend! I want to break up. Your morning routine. With this cute text! XO 😘
150. I Woke up smiling after last night. I hope you did too…😊
151. Top of the morning to my dream guy…:)
152. Morning Honey! I woke up so happy that I no longer have to stay up all night wondering if I’ll find Mr. Right because I already found him in you…😘

Related – Funny Good Morning Texts For Him

Flirty Good Morning Texts For Her 

These sweet good morning texts for her will brighten her day:

153. Rise and shine beautiful! Let’s skip work and snuggle all day…🥰
154. Good morning Cutie! Missing me yet? 😉
155. Morning gorgeous! Did I leave my watch at your place last night? No?! Well I guess it was just my heart then…😉
156. Morning Sweetheart, I hope your day is filled with smiles, sweet surprises, and of course, me! XO
157. Good morning cutie! Wanna talk flirty to me? 😉
158. Mornings aren’t as fun without you in my bed.
159. Hey, beautiful! Wishing you a morning full of irresistible thoughts about me. You’re welcome.
160. Morning! I’m no psychic but I bet your bedhead looks so cute right now…😍
161. Listen, you have to stop making me dream about you all night, ok? I’m busy trying to get my beauty sleep…😉
162. Good morning! I hope your day is as amazing as your beautiful smile.
163. Good morning! Last night was absolutely incredible and unforgettable…😍
164. Good morning, gorgeous! Just a friendly reminder that you’re the reason I wake up with a smile every day.
165. Good morning sweet girl. The only thing that would make my morning coffee better is if you were right here with me.
166. I woke up and realized that all I want to do is make you and only you smile…🥰
167. Me + You = 😍 ❤️
168. Roses are red, violets are blue, mornings are better when I’m snuggling with you.
169. Morning beautiful! I hope your day is off to an amazing start! BTW its only 8 hours 434 seconds until I can kiss those lips again. Can’t wait! 😘
170. May your coffee this morning be as hot as you are! 😉
171. Morning! I Can’t wait to kiss you later. If I was there with you, I’d do it right now, morning breath and all.
172. Morning Sleepyhead! I tossed and turned all night thinking about you and now I can’t stop smiling like crazy…Looking forward to our date night tonight!…:)

Hot Flirty Texts & Steamy Messages To Spice Things Up

173. It’s funny, but I don’t feel like doing anything today…except you…😍 🔥
174. I’m all alone in this big bed of mine, what do you think I should do?
175. I’ve been thinking about you… and it hasn’t all been PG.
176. I’m in the mood to play dress up tonight…:)
177. I’ve got a surprise for you later, and trust me I think you’re really going to like it…
178. Picturing you naked is the most productive thing I’ve done all day.
179. Soooo….you’ll never guess what you were doing to me in my dream last night…😍 🔥
180. Can’t wait to be by your side again…Or would you prefer me to be on top?
181. Just thinking about that time we were all alone in the hot tub…
182. Just bailed early on a work meeting…feeling naughty today…😉
183. Laying here, daydreaming about your hands on my skin.
184. If you could do anything you wanted with me tonight…what would you do?
185. Made my bed this morning, can’t wait to mess it up with you tonight! 😍 🔥
186. I want to play with you, but you should know that I bite.
187. How good are you with your hands?
188. Uggh! I have so much work today but I keep getting distracted thinking about your hands all over me…;)
189. What are your thoughts on bubble baths and long slow massages?
190. Gotta be honest, I can’t get my mind off how hot you look when you bite your lip.
191. Your kiss is sweeter than ice cream, and way better for me too…;)
192. Are you feeling cold? You should be, because I happen to be undressing you in my mind at this very moment….😉
193. I love it when you whisper in my ear, I shiver and get goosebumps all over my body…
194. I’m not a meteorologist, but I have a feeling that tonight’s going to be wet.
195. Just here wondering what you would do if you were with me right now…

Subtle Flirty Texts

If you’re texting your crush and want to be low-key you can do that. Here are some examples of text messages that are innocent and subtle yet still have a playfulness to them:

196. So happy that we connected, it’s not every day I meet someone as special/cute as you.
197. I haven’t had that good of a night in ages. Let’s do it again soon…😊
198. I was just thinking about you…don’t worry it was only good things…:)
199. So obviously you totally missed me last night…😉
200. I’m all alone tonight…too bad I don’t have any company…😊
201. I never knew how much fun dating could be until I met you.
202. Which emoji makes you think of me?
203. By the way, I’m wearing the smile you gave me…😊
204. I can think of one way to make my day a little better.

Related – Subtle Flirting Moves That Guys Love

Flirty Quotes To Text Him or Her

Text your special person one of flirty quotes below to spark a fun conversation:

205. “Smile. It’s the second best thing you can do with your lips.” – Jill Shalvis
206. “If goodness is its own reward, shouldn’t we get a little something for being naughty?” – Lauren Bacall
207. “I think of you only twice a day – when I am alone and when I am with someone else.” – Amit Kalantri
208. “Let’s be naughty and save Santa the trip.”
209. “I got my eyes on you. You’re everything that I see, I want your hot love and emotion. Endlessly.” – Drake
210. “I’m so in love, every time I look at you my soul gets dizzy.” – Jesse Tyler Ferguson
211. “Baby, where we’re going, you won’t need a shirt.” – Vernon D. Burns
212. “When I want to smile, I know exactly what to do. I just close my eyes and think of you.” – Rakii Retondo
213. “If I had to choose between breathing and loving you I would use my last breath to tell you I love you.” – DeAnna Anderson
214. “I’m trying and trying to walk away, but I know this crush ain’t going away.” – David Archuleta
215. “I want you to know that you’re the hottest biscuit this side of the gravy boat.” – Erin McCarthy
216. “For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” – Judy Garland
217. “With you as an inspiration, a painter will create his best painting, a writer will write his best literature and a poet will create his best poetry.” – Amit Kalantri
218. “In your smile, I see something more beautiful than the stars.” — Beth Revis
219.  “I’ve tried so many times to think of a new way to say it, and it’s still I love you.” – Zelda Fitzgerald
220. “You are the best decision my heart ever made.” – Kennedy Ryan

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Why Are Flirty Texts Important In A Relationship? – Benefits Of Flirting Over Text

As a professional dating and relationship coach, I’ve seen first-hand how powerful a flirty text can be for creating a romantic connection. And, there’s a lot of research that shows that many people prefer to flirt over text for various reasons. Including pleasure and relaxation.

Other reasons listed where that they liked that texting gave them extra time to compose the perfect message. While others preferred flirting over the phone as they liked that it put some distance between them and their love interest. Which made them feel safe from emotional rejection if their efforts were not received as planned.

However, as a dating coach I also know that it’s all about the balance that you create. While flirting over text can be a lot of fun and feel somewhat safe, your phone is not a person. So don’t forget to go on dates and flirt with your special someone in real life too!

It’s ok if at first it feels awkward, being good a flirting takes practice both over text and in person.

In the meantime now you have some ideas of how to write a good flirty text. So make sure to keep this list of ideas and examples of flirty texts on hand for whenever you need a little inspiration.

Happy Flirty-Texting!

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