Calling all the Single Ladies! Is your love life in a rut?
Spring is here and it’s a wonderful time to open up, refresh and renew the energy we want more of and let go of anything that no longer serves us.
Today I’m sharing with you how you can clear 3 types of energies that are cluttering up your love life so you can make room for more love to come in. Pretty Sweet right?!
1. Your Electronic Emotional Clutter
Do you have a phone full of old contacts, texts and pictures?
What about your Social Media, any Ex’s lurking about?
These are all things that are keeping your energy tied to your past. Taking steps to clear this area of your life is vital if you want to make room for love! Especially if somewhere in your heart, you’re hoping on some level that it could’ve worked out differently for you.
There’s no easy way to do this, other than to just do it, kinda like pulling off a band-aid!
Get out your phone, go through your contacts, texts and photos, next hit all your social media accounts, Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, Snap Chat, Google+ everywhere you can think of and Delete, Delete, Delete.
I know that it can feel so final, like that last little bit of hope you had is now gone, but I can promise you that you will feel better in the long run. If you absolutely must have the photos, save them to a file on your computer where they will be out of site out of mind.
And…If you find that you’re obsessing or stuck in a pattern of trolling exes or old crushes, block and take some time to look at how you can heal any lingering feelings of pain, anger and rejection.
2. Your Past Relationship Clutter
Have you ever heard of The Magic Of Tidying Up? There really is something about the energy that you create when you clean, that can bring in The New. You’ll also find that it can help shift your mindset and stop pulling your focus and energy from paying attention to the things that you really want, like finding your soul-mate.
What types of Relationship Clutter do you have lying around?
Pictures, Jewelry, Books, Clothes, Misc. Trinkets, etc.? These reminders of the past can scatter your mind and your emotional energy keeping you stuck in old patterns that prevent you from moving on.
Take a few minutes to go through your home and gather up anything that has ties to Exes and either donate or box them up and put them away.
3. Your Daily Routine
This the clutter of your everyday life!
Are you stuck in the same old boring routine? Most of us are.
Living the same day, thinking the same thoughts, reinforcing the same tired habits day after day and then wonder why nothing changes!
If you want to make a big change in your life, it’s rarely made by a significant event just happening to you, or taking a huge step, though it can, but this is usually not the easy way – occurring mostly through divorce, breakups, death, loss of employment etc.
New positive changes, the ones you want, that are going to help you reach your goals are created by the small tweaks and new habits in your everyday routine.
Try getting up 15 minutes early, taking a different route to work, get your coffee somewhere new, smile at that cute stranger and say hi. If you always go to the same gym, try a new fitness class, go out for a drink on a Wednesday, take an art class, just get out there and mix it up.
Will you meet the love of your life?
Maybe, but maybe not, maybe you meet a new friend that changes your life or introduces you to someone who will.
You’ll start to find that with small changes, you’ll be experiencing more fun, connection and a higher overall level of happiness and satisfaction with your life.
This is the kind of energy that’s Magnetic and attracts all kinds of great things to you, new friends, opportunities and maybe love too!
I hope that you find this helpful and if you decide to do a little spring cleaning, I would love to know about it.
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